Muriel and Gilbert on their honeymoon, 1891. |
Naughty daughter Idina Sackville |
Everybody happy, one could suppose. But Gilbert went on to blow his luck by having a fling with an actress in his home-town Bexhill-on-Sea, with whom he went to live a couple of houses down the street of his wife’s. Needless to say that the marriage ended in 1902. Muriel went on to be a suffragette, and so did her eldest daughter Idina. This Idina however became famous as a ‘bolter’: someone who lives a very promiscuous life. She married five times and was the scandal of the English peerage. The biography The Bolter (2008) recounts her very naughty adventures. The book was written by Frances Osborne, a descendant of the Brassey family.
Emily Lutyens |
At the time
Muriel became a member of the Society, she lived in London with her friend and co-member of the Theosophical Society, Mary
Hoadley Dodge. It took some time to figure out who she was, because her name is
always misspelled as Headley, and she is always mentioned as the heiress to the
Dodge car emporium. Mary Melissa Hoadley Dodge (1861-1934) however was not the
heir to the cars, but a daughter of William E. Dodge, one of two controlling
partners in the Phelps Dodge Corporation, one of the largest copper mining
corporations in the United States. Guess what: Mary’s grandfather was David
Hoadley, the president of the Panama Railway Company. So now we’ve made full
circle to Muriel’s grandfather’s business.
William
Dodge had a house built in Tudor Revival style by one of the most famous
American architects at that time, James Renwick Jr. William also was a
philanthropist, who raised funds for, and was on the executive board of, the
MOMA in New York, and was a member of a host of other institutions, such as
the National Academy of Design in New York. Mary’s sister Grace was also active
on the women’s rights movement in the US. For an indication of the sheer wealth
of the family: at her death in December 1914 Grace left
a net estate of 7 million Dollars, of
which she bequeathed more than 1,5 million to religious,
charitable, and educational institutions.
Railways and money were not the only shared elements in the biography of Mary Dodge and Muriel De la Warr. They both housed the brothers Jiddu and Nityananda Krishnamurti, when they were shipped to London from India, first in Muriel’s house Old Lodge in Ashdown Forest, then in a flat belonging to Muriel at Robert Street, Adelphi, and then in the house of Mary Dodge on West Side Common. The Krishnamurti brothers were educated under their wings, and Jiddu went on to become the World Leader of modern theosophy. The daughter of Emily Lutyens, Mary, became the first biographer of Krishnamurti. Watch terrific original footing here:
Railways and money were not the only shared elements in the biography of Mary Dodge and Muriel De la Warr. They both housed the brothers Jiddu and Nityananda Krishnamurti, when they were shipped to London from India, first in Muriel’s house Old Lodge in Ashdown Forest, then in a flat belonging to Muriel at Robert Street, Adelphi, and then in the house of Mary Dodge on West Side Common. The Krishnamurti brothers were educated under their wings, and Jiddu went on to become the World Leader of modern theosophy. The daughter of Emily Lutyens, Mary, became the first biographer of Krishnamurti. Watch terrific original footing here:
William Blake, Gabriel appearing to Zacharias, c. 1800. |
The famous modern dancer Ruth St. Denis at Krotona, 1918. |